How Can Sad Country Songs Help With Mending a Broken Relationship?

An Interesting Question – How Can Sad Country Songs Help with Mending a Broken Relationship? – and My Answer!

I had someone ask me the other day, “Why is country music so depressing? Why is it always about breaking up, or losing a love, or mending a broken relationship, or other melancholy subjects?”

Obviously, this person isn’t a fan of country music and my first reaction was to bristle and say, “It’s no such thing!”

But I started thinking about it. A lot of country music IS about losing the love of your life and wanting him or her back. I remember when a very important relationship I was in ended. I wallowed in my misery (lol) with my favorite sad country music. Collin Raye’s “Dreamin’ My Dreams With You” was especially hard for me to listen to because we line danced “Waltz Across Texas” to it and I would have to leave the dance floor so I could go cry in the bathroom! LOL But, it helped get me through it. Crying and feeling your emotions is a very good thing and one of the steps towards healing.

I wished fervently that we could get back together, but I didn’t have a clue where to start or how to approach my ex love. I had read a lot of relationship books, such as “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” by John Gray and most of the books by Barbara De Angelis, and several others, but they didn’t specifically address the steps one must take to win back your former lover.

The Solution I Wish I Had Back Then To Help Me Mend My Broken Relationship

Well now, many years later, I have found such a book and it’s written by a good ol’ boy from Arkansas, T. W. Jackson (“call me T Dub”). I feel real comfortable with T Dub because my roots, also, are deep in Arkansas. Most of my relatives, from my Mom on up the line, are from Arkansas, Tennessee, Oklahoma, and Mississippi. But mostly Arkansas (Avants, Walston, Ray, Tunnicliff, Harden). I may have lived in California, Delaware, Hawai’i and now, Morocco, but I’m as country as my biscuits and gravy!

So when I heard about T Dub and read his book, I knew right away that he knows what he’s talking about and has anyone who is suffereing from a break up and wants to get back together with their ex in mind. He isn’t some mindless corporation that has put together a lot of “stuff” from “relationship gurus” and presented it as his own. He’s very sincere and has helped many people, starting with his family and friends.

Conclusion

So, if you are going through the heartbreak of losing your love, I would strongly suggest you read about T Dub and his book by clicking here: “The Magic of Making Up.” Be sure to watch the videos on the page that comes up because this will show you how authentic and sincere T Dub is.

That’s really all I want to say about this. My goal with this blog isn’t to “sell books” but I’ve been in the position of losing the one I loved most in the world and I know how important country music was in helping me get through it.

I also know that if I had had T Dub’s book back then, maybe I would have had success mending my broken relationship.

A Parting “Sad Country Song”

With that being said, here’s one of my favorite “sad country songs” by Vince Gill.

Whatever your situation, always keep smilin’ and having that line dancin’ fun.

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